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Voice · rank 1 of 5 · speaking up

Down-shift

For 10 minutes, end every sentence on a downward inflection. No uptalk.

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Why it works

Downward inflection reads as certainty, and your own voice trains your own state.

A good rep

Ten minutes of statements that end low and flat, like you mean them. Questions can still rise. Statements don't.

If it goes sideways

You catch yourself uptalking. That is the drill working. Say the sentence again, lower, and keep going.

How to play it

  1. 1

    Before

    Rate your nerves from 1 (panicking) to 10 (at ease), and guess how it will go.

  2. 2

    Do it

    Play the card. A no counts. A bail counts. Walking up to the moment is most of the rep.

  3. 3

    After

    Rate your nerves again and say what actually happened. The gap between the two numbers is the workout.

The Voice suit · speaking up

Five ranks.

This is where the suit starts. Cleared it? Rank 2 is The order, slowly.

  1. 1

    Down-shift

    For 10 minutes, end every sentence on a downward inflection. No uptalk.

  2. 2

    The order, slowly

    Order a drink 30% slower and 20% louder than feels natural. Pause once mid-order and don't fill the silence.

  3. 3

    Song request, broadcast

    Get the band's attention between songs and make a request loud enough that people nearby turn around.

  4. 4

    The toast

    Stand and give a 20-second toast to people you just met. Full commitment, no half-standing.

  5. 5

    Stage time

    Get on stage. Sing a line, join karaoke, or get the mic for one sentence.

One card tonight.

The worst case is a stranger saying no, and you'll live.

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