Ask · rank 5 of 5 · rejection

The guest list

Charm your way into something: a reserved section, a rooftop, a photo with the band. Charm only.

Free. Nothing to download. Always take no for an answer.

Why it works

Most closed doors downtown are unasked questions.

You ask for something special, like a photo with the band or a spot upstairs, using only charm and honesty. Rules stay unbroken.

The answer is no. Thank them by name if you have it. Staff remember the people who took a no well.

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Before
Rate your nerves from 1 (panicking) to 10 (at ease), and guess how it will go.
2
Do it
Play the card. A no counts. A bail counts. Walking up to the moment is most of the rep.
3
After
Rate your nerves again and say what actually happened. The gap between the two numbers is the workout.

The Ask suit · asking for things

Too big for tonight? Start at rank 4, The borrowed hat. This is the top of the suit.

1

The small favor

Ask a stranger to take your photo. Then ask for one more "with better vibes."
2

The discount probe

Ask with a smile: "Any chance there's a deal on this tonight?" Take the no gracefully.
3

Engineered no

Make a request you expect to be refused. The goal is collecting the no calmly.
4

The borrowed hat

Ask a stranger to lend you an accessory for one photo. Sweeten the deal however you like.
5

The guest list

Charm your way into something: a reserved section, a rooftop, a photo with the band. Charm only.

The worst case is a stranger saying no, and you'll live.